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How to Talk About Performance Without Blame
How to keep accountability while reducing shame and defensiveness.
Shared Language editorial team
Published · 2 min read
Why this matters
Blame makes people defensive. Clarity helps people improve.
Better performance conversations
Focus on observable details.
- What happened
- Impact
- Pattern
- Support needed
- Next step
Avoid labels
Avoid labels like lazy, difficult, careless, or unprofessional.
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Replace one character judgment with an observable behavior.