About the project
The problem was never the people. It was the translation gap.
Shared Language is a nonprofit project helping workplaces, schools, and communities understand the behavior before judging the person. Here is where it comes from, how the guidance is developed, and how to reach us.
Why this exists
Shared Language was born from a simple observation: brilliant professionals were being measured against systems that were never designed for their brains. After years of watching talented colleagues mask, burn out, and leave roles where they could have thrived — and after navigating that path personally — it became clear that the problem wasn't the people. It was the translation gap.
Managers aren't trying to be unkind. Employees aren't being difficult. But without a shared language for how different brains approach work, misunderstanding fills the space where support should be. This project exists to close that gap — with practical tools, honest language, and the belief that workplace inclusion starts with understanding, not compliance.
Built by someone who lives this experience daily. Identity details are kept private to keep the focus on the work itself.
How the guidance is developed
Everything here is designed to slow down assumptions and support better workplace conversations. Guidance is educational — not medical, diagnostic, or legal advice — and should be adapted to the individual and the situation.
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Behavior first
Start with observable behavior rather than labels or inferred intent.
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Possibilities, not verdicts
Offer multiple possible contexts and practical, low-risk support options.
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Corrected in the open
Review and revise content as lived-experience and employment expertise are added.
Spot an overgeneralization or an outdated recommendation? Mention it in a message below — corrections are part of the method, not an embarrassment.
What this is not
Clear boundaries make the tools safer to use. Three things Shared Language will never be:
Not diagnosis
Nothing here identifies, labels, or screens for any condition. The tools describe behaviors and possibilities — never people.
Not therapy or medical advice
Guidance is educational. For health decisions, consult a qualified professional who knows the individual.
Not legal or compliance advice
Accommodation law varies by place and situation. Use these tools to support better conversations — not to replace HR or counsel.
Free, because understanding shouldn't depend on budget
The core tools stay free. Long-term sustainability comes from grants, donations, and partnerships that protect the project's independence — never from paywalling the guidance itself.
Get in touch
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