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How to Clarify Intent Before Reacting
Short phrases that reduce conflict from tone assumptions.
Shared Language editorial team
Published · 2 min read
Why this matters
Many conflicts start because tone is assumed before intent is checked.
Useful phrases
Try:
- I want to check intent before I react.
- Were you flagging a risk or disagreeing with the decision?
- Can you clarify what you meant?
Try this next
Use one intent-checking question before responding to a tense message.